Moving on... Wat really is moving on? Ade fell in love with a gurl, gave her his all, loved her wth every breath he has got and above all he remained faithfull despite her short comings.. One day,he got back from class and saw a scribbled note on his bed... She was breaking up wth him. Funmi, was in a relationship wth ade, she got into d relationship a virgin but Ade wth is promises of love and persuasions disflowered her. they were together for 2 years. the once graceful lover starts acting shady.. She tried pulling out words from him, but to no avail, nuffing is wrong am fine was his reply. not until one day wen she caught him red handed wth another gurl. He broke her heart and worked out of her life... Taiwo and davido was d perfect couple, they av been married for 10 years wth two children, they both luv eachother and av both gone thru some serious challanges.. One day taiwo start feeling a slight headache, it got worse and it was later discoverd she has brain tumor.. She died 2 mnths later.. leaving dAvido wth the two kids behind. He cried and was in pain for long.... All these people av all experinced pains and heartbreaks.. The usual thing to say is move on... But its usually easier said than done. Should they move on pretending it neva happend or, find someone else to subtle d pain, or smile outside while they are dying inside, or cry their pain out or tag along cos we all av to go thru it?..... Some broken hearts neva mend, some memories neva fade, some strenght are just weakness and some love neva dies... Sometimes we carry this pains along and use them to hurt others who trully cares and love us. Some girls start sleeping around cos dey believe al guys just want sex; some guys playing games cos they believe girls cant be trusted, people starts living life on a freeway cos they believe life is not worth the stress; men killing each other cos we've all lost respect for humanity; people sleep wt one eye open cos nobody trust nobody; u cant trust preachers cos u caught ur wife wth ur pastor; people cheat cos they believe dat is d easy way to get wat u want..... These are d things we av inflicted on ourselves bcos of our past experience... How then can we move on? It is recorded in d bible dat Jesus christ went thru pains, dissapointments, betrayal, sufferings, temptations, broken heart, and He even cried... But above all, His love for humanity kept him going despite d obstacles. And He still went ahead to redeem us from our falling state.. If He did it then for u, He can still do it naw for u.. Dispite d pains He said 'Father forgive them for dey know not wat dey do'.. The aim is not to move on alone but to do it with Jesus, if u let him, He will let u love and live a glorious life again... For God love u and I and He wants to see us happy... Move on with Him today, He cares... Written and edited by Seundede Ejueyitchie. Published under Queensprince Nigeria.